A full, gentle (but not exactly innocent) guide to discovering — or rediscovering — anal pleasure through the use of a butt plug: how to choose it, how to get started, which model suits which kind of explorer, and how to incorporate it into your solo or partnered play.
Why (and how) explore anal pleasure?
Maybe you’ve heard about it. Maybe you’ve fantasized about it. Anal pleasure intrigues, excites… and yes, it can also feel intimidating. Because we grew up with taboos, with “That’s dirty,” or “It’s not meant for that,” or judgmental looks instead of curious ones.
But between us? Anal pleasure is literally a gateway to mind-blowing sensations. And the butt plug is the perfect toy to explore it gently, at your own pace, with your own body.
Breaking Taboos, Unlocking Possibilities
No — anal pleasure isn’t reserved for one type of person. It’s not gendered, not shameful, and not only for the “more experienced.” It’s a full-fledged erogenous playground, open to all bodies, all desires, all identities.
So what’s a butt plug got to do with it? It’s your (re)discovery tool — a way to stimulate a highly sensitive, often overlooked zone that can literally make your whole body shake with pleasure, whether you have a vulva or a penis.
The Anatomy of Anal Pleasure — Why It Feels So Good
This isn’t just a TikTok trend or something to add to your erotic bucket list. Anal pleasure is rooted in real, physical sensations:
For people with a penis: There’s the prostate — aka the “P-spot” — a super-sensitive area about 4–6 cm inside the anus. When stimulated properly? It delivers deep, powerful internal orgasms.
For people with a vulva: The anal area is rich in nerve endings, and the rectum sits close to the G-spot — which means anal stimulation can heighten penetration and orgasm sensations.
Add a vibrating or inflatable plug to the mix, and you’re in for a pleasure cocktail you never saw coming.
Safety, Hygiene & Consent = The Basics of Anal Play
Before diving headfirst into the world of butt plugs, let’s cover the foundations. A great time starts with safety, cleanliness, and full consent.
✔ Always use lube (a lot of it) → The anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Go generously with a good water- or silicone-based lube (depending on your plug’s material).
✔ Go slow → Faster doesn’t mean better. The slower you go, the more intense the buildup.
✔ Clean thoroughly → Before and after use. Stick to non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel for easier cleaning.
✔ And always — ALWAYS — use a flared base → A butt plug must have a wide base to keep it from getting lost inside. Always. No exceptions.
See? Anal pleasure isn’t dirty or taboo — it’s just misunderstood. But once you trust your body, take your time, and equip yourself properly, it becomes a delicious playground with no limit to your satisfaction.
How to Choose the Perfect Butt Plug for You
The world of butt plugs is wide, varied, and full of sensations to match your every mood and comfort level. Whether you’re a beginner or more experienced, the key is finding a plug that suits you.
New to the game? Looking to try something new? Craving something deeper, buzzier, or even inflatable (literally)? We’ve got you covered with a quick and dirty (but clean!) round-up to help guide your exploration. 😏
Butt Plugs for Beginners — A Gentle Introduction
Taking your first steps (or slide) into anal play? No pressure — just pleasure. Start with a small, soft plug that’s not intimidating and helps you ease into new sensations.
We recommend:
- Asstro – Butt Plug Set → Four different sizes so you can progress at your own pace.
- Eclipse – Anal Plug Set → A gradual introduction that grows with your confidence — and your pleasure.
Vibrating Butt Plugs — When You’re Ready to Turn Things Up
If you’re looking to spice things up and make your booty tremble to the rhythm of vibrations, these toys are a must.
We recommend:
- Bass butt plug from ROMP → Soft, flexible, and perfect for a first-time buzz.
- We-Vibe Ditto anal plug → A remote-controlled plug with powerful vibrations and an ergonomic design — great for solo or couple play.
- The vibrating Rimming Plug 2 → Mimics rimming (yes, really!) with rotating beads and vibrations. It feels like a tongue. 👅
- Vibe-A-Play vibrating butt plug → Discreet but powerful. Flies under the radar — but not under your pleasure.
Glass Butt Plugs — Elegance Meets Versatility
Glass plugs are beloved for their sleek beauty and their sensory potential. Firm, precise, and perfect for temperature play — warm them up or cool them down for unique sensations.
We recommend:
- Icicles No. 48 glass butt plug → A hand-blown masterpiece. Ideal for hot-cold experimentation.
Metal Butt Plugs — For Lovers of Intensity
Metal plugs bring weight and pressure for more intense sensations. In other words: heavy hitters that glide in like silk.
We recommend:
- Rockin’ Metal vibrating butt plug → Stainless steel, satisfying weight, sleek finish, and yes — it vibrates!
- Rockin’ Metal Mini small anal plug → A gentler option for a more subtle, silky feel.
- Pfun Plug stainless steel plug → Designed for prostate play, with the perfect angle for deep stimulation.
Inflatable Butt Plugs — Customize Your Intensity
These toys are all about control. Want more stretch? Inflate. Need a break? Deflate. Simple. Sensational.
We recommend:
- Colt XXL Pumper Plug → Inflate as much or as little as you like for perfectly tailored pleasure.
Anal Sex Starter Kits — Everything You Need to Begin
Curious about exploring everything at once — at your pace? Starter kits are a perfect way to dip into anal pleasure, with everything you need in one box.
We recommend:
- Anal Prep & Discovery Kit → Includes various plug sizes and accessories for exploring, relaxing, and playing your way.
Butt Plugs with Cock Rings — Double the Pleasure
A plug is great. A plug and a cock ring? Jackpot.
Perfect for people with a penis who want anal stimulation and a longer, stronger erection.
We recommend:
- Alpéniste – Cock Ring & Butt Plug Combo → An innovative design combining internal stimulation and erection support. What more could you ask for?
Before You Choose Your Butt Plug, Remember:
- Listen to your body → Choose a plug that fits your experience level and comfort.
- Check the material → Go for body-safe options like silicone, glass, or metal.
- Verify the base → Flared base, always.
- Size and shape matter → Start small with ergonomic shapes, then get bolder as your curiosity grows.
- Lube generously → Always, every time, no exceptions.
Ready to make your choice?
Let your curiosity — or your new favorite plug — lead the way. 😏
And most importantly… have fun.
Pleasure is meant to be explored.